Why I Refuse His Proposal In Church

The Lady in question revealed why she refused the brother's proposal in church, this Matter is Trending on the Social Spaces in various and distinct groups so I deem it that it is expedient that I also bare my mind on this rather supposed edacious but lugubrious issue. 

The story has it that: The young man kneeling went to church and asked the Pastor to call out a Lady whom he knelt down to propose to but the Lady rather than avering with a "Yes" just said nothing then took to her hills in a flashy daze.

We don't know cos we are Not told what Transpired between the Guy and the Lady as to Whether they were Lovers or Not and am Not here to Argue the "Status of their Relationship" nay, rather I wish to succinctly say 1 or 2 things about "Marriage Proposals".

Firstly, Communication is of Utmost Importance in a Relationship be it "Friendship", "Colleagueship" or "Love" but I will be Talking only about the "Love Relationship" for the Purpose of this Post.

Guys, Firstly, Before you Propose to a Lady, Make Sure that you Sit with her and Discuss and Make Sure she "Agrees to Marry you".

Secondly, tell her which year you want to Marry her whether it's "This year or Next year or 2 years time" and and Make Sure she Tells you when it will be Convenient and Okay for her to Marry. You guys should discuss and Come to An Agreement of "When you want to Marry".

Lastly, Make Sure you Discuss with her so as to Know whether she Wants or Loves a "Private or Public Proposal" and then Work with what She Wants so as to Avoid Embarrassment and Shame... Shalom

It's Your Brother

Kershagba-Henter